And Gandi said unto the people, “Let there be slaps of passion, and an entangling of souls in a restless tumble..”

Okay, so maybe I just made that up. What he did say is, “Joy lies in the fight, in the attempt, in the suffering involved, not in the victory itself..”

Truer words were never uttered. How often does a verbal relationship battle end in sex? Why?
The same is true with physical fights and abusive relationships, though I do not support the latter.

Back to the topic at hand:
Two hot and sweaty bodies sliding across each other, ensnaring each other in primal body bondage, no cuffs or straps but domination by one’s self. It’s a feeling that can’t really be described except that it relates to and parallels the sweaty passion found in good foreplay. Even the most vanilla partners can enjoy this, as it can be semi-competitive and is not already pegged with misinterpretations by the media or pegged as a sexual act. It can begin quite playfully actually…

Wresting and Fighting: Competitive, Fetish or Fantasy is so delicious, so exhilerating, and blood warming, training the breathing, switching it over to a heavier, controlled sensual rhythm for sensual play.

This has been a passion of mine for many years through direct involvement, competition, play and sexy shows.

Competitive
Beginning with the so-called “least sexual” of the styles of fighting, the group least aware of the fetish. Competitive fights are more difficult than they seem, and much more intimidating soon as the bell rings. If few holds are barred and you are boxing for example or hitting to the head and face is allowed at all, you mind snaps awake and you click into a fight headspace fast. Speaking from experience and being a dominant person, being punched in the head repeatedly drove me insane and snapped me into a more vicious character than the one that I have often played at shows. This is not a good thing.

Enough about me though for now, these men and women who literally fight for a living, they know their bodies well, and take care of them, and that alone is very sexy. They work out, have defined muscles and a great range of motion from the daily stretch, and can slam our weight down on the floor or lift us high as if we were a bag of carrots (Nevermind the sack of potatos analogy, sometimes those bastards are heavy and rip open, carrots it is ha ha). Anyway, these are the things that we consider as we watch them beat up on their opponent, or be beat down- indeed watching little girls lose to bigger girls or vice versa is a common fantasy to see, but with competitive fights, due to weight classes, it rarely happens.

So yes, in partial explanation as to where I’ve been, I was recently on a related excursion to watch and record competitive matches as the happened, finding myself obscessing and fantasizing about a ridiculously muscular slim woman who was obviously a body-builder, among other things. This may have to do with my love for sexy, androgenous people, but due to the way that I was “introduced to her” how I first saw her in action essentially, I would say that it had to do with brute force and defined muscles. Alright, I’ve backed myself into a corner here to finish this discussion though it has to do with me. I am dominant in my life, in most situations and that is how I live- at work and at home, but I would have let her kick my ass any day. Ah, the power of power.

Anyway, the matches at this fantastic event were solely competitive, no pre-arranged anything aside from who was to fight who when so we would all get a turn, and pretty brutal. Most of the fighters had some involvement in the fetish world but with any competitive match where those involved aren’t looking at you, the audience, brings about a sexy voyeur feel. Sure it’s hot if the woman/man knows that you are watching them do something bad, but it can be even hotter if they don’t, especially if you feel a little bit of guilt at the naughtiness of watching.
This phenomenon, that of guilt and voyeurism, and not being involved with something for the same reason as the other people involved, I’ve decided to call the G-Spot.

The G Spot is the itch that we need to scratch, the spot that we love to hit that we weren’t brought up to know about, that brings about a different, but similar feeling in most people: “If only so-and-so knew I saw them blah blah/ knew what I was doing right now” or the ever popular “Yes, I am such a filthy, horny slut!” All those great things that get us hard.. and the people who trigger that feeling.. they’ll probably never know…

Then there is the next level up or down (depending on your preference), Fantasy Fighting, where the material has been created so that the outcome may surprise you, or involve sustained holds or humiliation, characters, costumes and more, created well aware of the fact that it will cause arousal. Here the men or women are scantily clad, spew out a sexy dialogue, look into the camera or tease their opponents, fight dirty or pretend to do so, and the fight’s ending is pre-determined or at least certain movements and holds are meant to be included.

Semi-Competitive wrestling can fall under the last category as well, as it is competitive but neither party uses their full strength or permanently traps their opponent, they each give each other a bit of leeway, and usually has some of the more damaging submission holds or moves vetoed: like arm bars, chokes, punches, slaps, or specifically picks and chooses from the above, working with the physical abilities of those present. Mainly with this, the thrill is in the match and the grapple, not winning. Usually with semi-competitive private sessions, for example, the client does not come to win, nor to try to overpower the pro, but to push back a little and mainly feel out their technique and feel that they can dish out.

Some matches, such as with competitive catfighting, specifically include a lot of the taboo moves, like hairpulling, groping, slapping (body and face), scratching, punching, and they are just brutal. Like the girl-fights that the Hollywood movies and shows try to use to grab our attention, except real, painful, and with real sound effects.

Competitive fighters don’t have time to look at the audience, or cater to what the audience wants them to wear, Pro-Wrestlers can, with the sweet moments of pause as their opponents “suffer” trying to catch their breath, or stand up for another round, the winning fighter can look around, play with the audience or cater to them, knowing exactly what to do to complete the fantasy and plan their next move to give them more of what they want.

In Pro-Style wrestling, which is what I started with when I first got into Fetish wrestling, the fighters wrestle semi-competitively, often with a pre-determined ending that may or may not be the case, depending on which opponent has more energy that day. Out of respect for their opponents they also don’t use full force because of how demanding their moves and style is, they can’t afford to collect long-term injuries. A scissor hold applied with full force can be very dangerous, as well as chokes, so fighters must learn how to apply them and watch for signs of real weakness, dizziness, to avoid knocking out the other person. Likewise Dominas must learn how to properly insert and maneuver tools into a hungry anus before they officially offer anal play.

Fantasy wrestling is so fun and can be so spur of the moment and unpredictable, whereas “scenes” are generally planned out. Someone decides to lose eventually or is forced to do so depending on the strength of their partner, and the holds are a fantastic addition to the bedroom for those into hard BDSM play (breath play, pain, domination), or those who want to know how to intensify those tickle matches…

Often times a man will request to be dominated by a woman in a fantasy match, or another man, and they (newbies and those with the specific fetish alike) very much enjoy the dominant’s freestyling and creativity, in utilizing their bodies to ensnare, squeeze and sting. A lot of the fun of this involves, pressure, sweat, heat, conflict and most fun of all, getting down and dirty.

Which leads me to Oil wrestling, pudding etc, anything that lessens the ability of the fighters to grapple as usual or get a grip on their play space. It has it’s charm, but it is so difficult to fight properly in these substances that most of them are reduced to simple “girl fights”, unless you have the good fortune to be able to watch two competitive fighters take up the challenge- all Ihave to say is man, is that ever hot.

There is also something to be said in general about being dominated by a woman, it’s such a different feel than a man for so many reasons. I could digress and speak about that forever, but I’ll save that for a future entry.

So, do you want to learn how to put the moves on someone?
Here are a few that you can use and see in lots of different styles/levels of fighting that are easy to learn:

Scissoringis the main hold that you will see, which involves wrapping your legs around someone’s head/neck (easiest to start with their head facing your junk or facing your feet as opposed to across the neck, in which case, always make sure the person’s chin is behind your knee. Many people have strong enough thighs to be able to start squeezing hard with them right away, but the best way to put the squeeze on is to straighten out your legs. You must have this put on you as well as put it on someone else, even if you are dominant, because you need a reference point to go by- you may be able to do this harder than you realize. :)

I was going to go into a few holds, but I may have to save that for a future entry because I can’t get the photos at the moment. But a very good hint that someone told me once was: never have a free hand. Never allow your opponent to have free limbs that could hurt you, or not put yours to use when you can.

Some websites that are definite must-sees in this fetish world are:

Seakings FemFight
Girl Fight Wrestling Hub

Merlin’s Kingdom
3D Graphic Fantasy Girl Fights

Ultimate Surrender
Girl Fights With a Humiliating Sexual Ending

Fighting Style
Competitive Women’s Fighting

WB270
Female Session Wrestlers For Hire!

Mixed Wrestling Zone
An Up and Coming Site- M-F fights

Well, that’s probably quite enough for now, it’s about time that I started typing up the numerous entries that I prepared when I had little to no home internet for updating this bad boy… speaking of which..

Little Red’s Question of the .. entry:
What is your fighting style?

Happy Stretching!
LittleRed

ps.
GIRL GETS PUNCHED IN FACE NUMEROUS TIMES
GIRL KNOWS THAT THIS IS AGAINST THE RULES OF THE FIGHT
GIRL SNEAKILY PUNCHES BACK
GIRL DROPS OTHER GIRL, BUT IS TRAPPED
GIRL HAS ONE HAND FREE
GIRL KNOWS HOW TO DELIVER A SLAPPIN’.
GIRL LICKS HAND AND TARGETS OTHER GIRLS SENSITIVE INNER THIGH
GIRL GIGGLES…..

seakings femfight

Triangle or scissor and then some :)


Dear Everyone

Posted by LittleRed
In Uncategorized
25Jul 08

Should I turn this into a book instead?

LittleRed

PS. Anyone else giggle when the tent gets pegged this season?



There is a lot to be said or done, for things that are visually stimulating. “Fetish” is known for situations involving this sensation. One such fetish, which is actually fairly vast, has been growing in awareness in the fetish realm, with sex-workers and service providers in general, and I personally have become more involved with it’s word this year.

Ever since I got my first job, I have religiously bought underwear at any chance, but never as much as I have recently. I’ll buy ten pairs at a time, or more- when I was younger I would have the same dull pairs floating around seemingly forever and I would just trash them. Now they seem to slip through my fingertips as soon as I get my excited little mits onto them.

There is something deliciously filthy about lacy panties, thongs, crotchless panties or well, any style of panties has a crowd of fans… that makes boyfriends, panty fetishists, men and women alike stand at attention, so to speak.

With panty fetishists who delight in women’s panties, there is something about lying back and enjoying the scent of a woman, with a pair of worn panties over one’s nose, where you can’t help but touch yourself. Whether it is because it relates to face-sitting, the forbidden fruit or over the top filthiness… Some panty fetishists crave satin. Personally I can’t handle satin underwear I find them colder than g-strings. Many crave cotton- actually a lot of men do. Panty fetishists range in their vaginal education as well- some need a filthy pee-smell to be convinced that a vagina was there. Some want panties that have been worn inside the vagina for a day. This latter example I have seen offered in fact and I was surprised to see a SP risking infection for a sale.

But I digress. There is something about the smooth texture of a panty that feels phenomenal around the shaft, alternating that with smelling the woman who was there before, and the delightful panty cum shot (youporn.com has many of these videos). In fact there is also a rise in a new “Job” called the panty job- similar to the foot job it’s a new method (what a sexy word) of stimulation (who am I, sue?) which caters to the sensational needs of the fetishist- it’s exciting to see these things becoming available, and visible!

More often than not, the panty is preferably dirtier. Filthy. Each mind will run to a certain act of course to figure out what the “filthiness” is- and the most obvious is panties that have been masturbated in. It can be a sampling of forbidden fruit from a young student/ college girl who would be otherwise unattainable, as these girls are often young ladies jumping on an internet bandwagon, who would never strip or escort, or show their young flowers to a strange man. Sometimes the women are strippers or fetish providers who are looking for a few extra dollars on the side, a bit of fun and excitement to mix up their day. If you are interested to know, prices range from the industry standard of $25/30 a pair to stripper standard of $50 and newbie standard of 100. Unfortunately for the latter, A BBBJ is $60 in big cities and full service is anywhere from $70-150 to start so they don’t do very well and personally I think that SP’s need to get over themselves to a degree before promising to make people’s dreams come true without ripping them off.

To have panties wet upon arrival, the provider needs to have enough time to thoroughly enjoy themselves. Being paid to masturbate is a cute idea and the providers really have fun with it.

It is interesting to note, that the best selling panty of a season is the opposite of what women would be wearing at the time. Briefs are big in the fall, cotton, thongs, g-strings and boycut in the winter, hard fetish messy panties and thongs in the spring, and as for the summer- who knows, though I have been informed that the lululemon yoga trend- panties that have been worked out in and have had yoga done while wearing them seem to be what will be the most popular. Everyone has a different idea of what underwear are sexy, panty fetishists and partners as well- many men love to see their women in cute, low-rise briefs and many women love their women like that as well- as sexually easy to access, without the un-wedging of the door lock, so to speak. ha.

Many women don’t realize that the sex smell in a room, the taste of a healthy woman, translates/ leaves a message in their panties.. and that smelling that scent, or seeing the result of that in a woman’s panties can be an is, a turn on. It’s a reminder of hot nights, peeling visibly wet panties down a set of sex-hungry thighs.

Often times married couples or couples in long-term relationships do not make time for foreplay and so this wet and ready element is often lost- even though it naturally happens to women throughout a regular day; men investigating the panties of their wives or girlfriends can be excited (or frustrated) at discovering a large white spot - especially if it reaches to the edges of the panty’s crotch. A possible hint- am I getting laid tonight?

And what excitement is there when one finds a woman who will allow her panties to be smelled whenever, who has no shame and just doesn’t care- that is hot! A lot of women feel nervous about this area, even in regards to oral sex (nevermind the panties alone), that they might not be clean or might “smell” down there. What if there is a hint of urine? What if there is a tiny spot from the back door? I find women are so obsessed with being clean (not a bad thing) that they can be a bit uptight about what is down and loose (I am all about the puns today and for that I am sorry). The sense of the “real scent of a woman”, many service providers end up sending out- and most men request what they think is a real smell- that couldn’t be farther from the truth. They want to smell or experience the “real, hardworking woman”.

GIRL STARTS JUNIOR HIGH
GIRL IS BROKE
MOM BUY’S GIRLS’ CLOTHES AND UNDERPANTS
UNDERPANTS COME IN A BAG OF SIX
GIRL NEVER WANTS ANYONE TO SEE THEM
MOTHER KNOWS THIS.
GIRL STARTS HIGH SCHOOL
GIRL SECRETLY BUYS PANTIES (NOT UNDEROOS) AND STARTS TO DO OWN LAUNDRY
GIRL IS HOOKED

Bear in mind that a lot of my stories and examples come from people born from the 50’s to the 80’s, not the 90’s born tramps with neon “whore-floss” wedged into their anuses. *ahem*

This panty and underwear fetish is not limited to women, but is huge with men. Straight men who like to swap their partners panties with other panty lovers, Bi-curious men who like to try them on, or see other men in panties, or smell and enjoy men’s underwear.. enjoying briefs that had been masturbated in by a man are all very popular. The shame and filthiness of wearing women’s panties or smelling the ball-sweat and licking the cum of another man out of his worn briefs can be overwhelmingly sexy, of course, more so if he watches you do it.

Hard fetish panties as provided by either gender speak for themselves, especially when it comes to hiring a pro. Clients can take home a doggie bag custom made for them, to enjoy in their car or wherever on their own time, taking only 10 minutes to pick them up, paying less than a third of the price of a Hard Fetish session (industry standard of $300). Often times the main clients of the SP’s are older married men, or young single men too shy to ask this of their partners, or who have had their requests declined which I find very sad.

People familiar with long-term relationships, you must also know what I mean when I point out how much a pair of underwear can change a sexual mood, on women or on men. Your partner has a few pairs of underwear that you hate (more than likely), but you are too polite to tell them so. Sometimes when you tell them, they get defensive and hang on to them almost out of spite, even when you offer to buy them a new pair yourself. I almost don’t blame the men, because nice men’s underwear is so much more expensive than women’s- and rarely ever on sale. But to the men- I swear, if you get a new pair with a silky fabric, or sans cartoons, or even with a ridiculous cartoon that you know your partner would love, you may just discover a new self confidence in wearing them that shines through your clothing. It’s what’s in your pants that counts. ha. And likewise the women will notice.

A little note here to say that sometimes it is best if you pick the underwear out with your partner, because traditionally new underwear in the drawer means an affair or over active sexual life away from your partner, at least I know that many people interpret it that way. So if you make a point to say, “hey what do you think of these” and throw out the underwear that no longer supports your balls (giant crotch holes), your sex life may very will improve.

Another underwear note is that often you will have pairs that remind you of, or that you had memories with regarding a past lover. Get rid of them and start anew. Sell them, toss them, turn them into rags, buy a new pair and start some new history. The little things can make a big difference (likewise with small toys for penetration, if so-and-so gave it to you for your vag, use it on your ass haha or pass it along, you’ll see). Besides getting rid of baggage, we often do not treat ourselves these days, too often, and we work hard. Why shouldn’t we have nice things?

It’s the little things that make the difference, as in my past entries I cannot stress enough how much details matter: scents, textures, moods.. they all work together.

<->ToyRecommendation:
-Two new pairs of underwear
(My Panty Secret Revealed: Zellers. Always on sale 30% awesome, generally 50% or more off of the already ridiculously low sales tag)

And with that, we come to the end of another installment, and I invite you to check out a few related videos on
You Porn :
Search the following:
“Panty Stuff”
and check out : panty jobs, panty stuffing, panty shots and piss panties- there is a lot to be found…
or one of the top vids here:
Hentai Panty Girl If you are not used to hearing Japanese porn sounds, you may want the volume off on this one.

Sissy Girl
This pic comes to us from a great sissy blog I stumbled across one day.
Check it out here : From Dreams Of A Sissy To Sissy Dreams

Little Red’s Question of the Week:
Are you a filthy slut?

Thanks for reading!
LittleRed



So now that you’ve played around with scarves and ties and little spanks, allow me to introduce you to some of my basic tools. This is going to be sort of a paragraph by paragraph commentary, not flowing as nicely as some of the other posts. I wanted to thank everyone who has been reading and commenting! I really appreciate it and I hope that you will enjoy this site as it grows as I will.

Clothespins: These can come in handy for sure- I probably shouldn’t start off with them in this write up but I am so deal with it- ha ha. You can use these in various places. When buying them I recommend having a little look see as to the texture of the clamp part itself in case it is really sharp or jagged. Pressure is the goal here not sharpness. My favorite places to put these besides nipples, are along the testicles and the labia in rows. If you aren’t a tight muscley hunk like me, as in a normal person, ha ha kidding, you can put them on you arms, back, hips, legs etc. Don’t keep them on for very long to start. When you get into using them for a bit longer you will learn that unclamping for a moment every now and then and then re-clamping brings feeling back to the area and brings back a nice zingy pain which usually goes away after some time. Allow the blood to flow, refresh the area, let them feel it again! After some time of being comfortable with this, you can practice cropping or flicking the clothes pins off- DO NOT PRACTICE AROUND THE GENITALS- Good Gravy! Snap the poor person out of their headspace. Wait till you’ve done it a few times.

ClampsThere are several types of say, nipple clamps that you can use, but it all depends on what you want them for. I personally haven’t had any luck with anything other than Clover clamps stay on the best, and allow you to use them to tie someone up by them. Check out a few types of clamps here: WikiClamps If you want, you can start out with tying thin elastics around them, or hanging small adjustable tassels off of them- as a starter. You can usually get those at a sex shop in the bachelor party section. Those and the breast/ genital cake moulds (ahem try jelly) are the only thing worthy of your money from that section of the store.

There is the option of going to a hardware store if you like it rougher- or the Dollarstore hardware aisle- it is sooo kinky. Electrical and Duct tape, clamps, plastic sheeting, rough mits, pfew! I am getting flustered thinking about it. Anyway, word to the wise. If you love to mix up your toys, you must purchase a MILL BASTARD FILE, if not only for the chance to ask for it at the store. It files metal, plastic, wood whatever, GREAT for when the cheap factories screw up pouring the moulds, or the clothespins need some smoothing from weather wear…. Looks like this What A Bastard! But they usually come with a sexy red handle. If it DOESN’t come with a handle and you want one, or a smooth soft surface on anything, you have to buy a plastic dip. It is so handy. Check out this action! Mm Yellow Goo And if you use it to file metal please PLEASE wear goggles.

From there, I can’t hold off any longer, I have to talk a bit about Sharps.

First and foremost, my favorite is the Wartenburg Wheel If you haven’t seen one of these delicious shiny tools before W a r t? It’s also called a Neurowheel and has a bit of a history with that name as well. It’s like a pizza wheel, except with spikes along the roller and purse-sized. The spikes, depending on what brand you buy- though they are usually displayed out of any marked case- can be very very sharp and hooked, or just right. That is where your Bastard comes in. I am going to refer to it as Bastard because, well, I think it’s awesome.
Okay, so if you don’t want to fork out $12.99- $24 CDN for a wheel- again, to dollar store, or your own kitchen drawer! Try a Pizza Wheel or a Pastry Cutter. You can also drag a metal meat tenderizer across the skin, not too hard to start and certainly dont slam it into the skin to start, I will be talking about percussion sharps in the Medical entry- wait till you see the spiked hammers!! You can also use things like, a fistfull of toothpicks, or just one, or a cake tester wire, to poke along the skin for a different feel, just playing around or a Potato/ Corn Scrub Brush! or a Mushroom brush if you want something much softer.

Continuing with the kitchen, my favorite is a BAMBOO RICE PADDLE. Bamboo tools are much better than wood- they don’t splinter, or stain, and can go in the dishwasher. You can wail on someone hard and you don’t end up burning them from old wood on a curry-stained spoon. If you like caning, then sure, the handle of a wooden spoon might work for sure. The other day I had these green onions that were floppy because i didnt keep them in the crisper and I totally busted them out for back and ass smacking. Don’t get me started on that cucumber. hahaha.
Spatulas are amazing. A nice plastic one from the dollar store with a silicone top is perfect- because it cleans super easily and can deal well with temperatures.

Paddles when you find the one you love, nothing else will matter. Don’t get pulled in by the gimmicks and ridiculous bells and whistles like the double paddles that leave a “bitch” or “slut” mark. Those are not “baby’s first paddle” You want something that is a slickish material so it makes a great smack and leaves a good sting, not too solid so it has some give, and a great handle. Of course you could just try the end of a belt, or a rice paddleagain. I’m saying this because I got tricked by it but now that I do what I do I know what matters. If you aren’t a pro you don’t need that stuff. Save it for a later present.


Tape Now you can have some fun with this- all the colors and varieties to decorate tools, space and your partner. Electrical tape- you can’t not have this on hand. You can get a package of 4-5 colours, small rolls at the dollar store for a buck. There’s bondage tape, which sticks to itself, but I already mentioned that, duct tape is very very harsh, but give it a whirl, it can be ever so sexy across the mouth when you’ve drawn a set of red lips over the front. Don’t get me started on ripping it open with a knife to shove something better in their mouth.. hehe. And a very fun tape is Aluminum Tape- very sticky and hard to work with but works amazingly when wrapped around several times and looks like old-school metal cuffs.

Spiked Mittens are a very tempting toy, but why? A fuzzy mitt with a hidden metal brush for 50 bucks? No thank you. Fuzzy mitts or fuzzy fabric (you can buy it for $5 a metre sometimes..) small slippers work great and you can alternate them on the skin with a potato brush. You can play with this all over the body but please please always be careful around the face- it’s almost best to not use metal tools on the face until you’ve used them for a long time. There’s just too much risk.

As for other tools for me to give a quick shout out to as they are pretty self explanitory:
Canes- great, but you can also try a wooden spoon, a decorative bamboo stick from Walmart ($3), a long school ruler ($4 at Staples) although the last two that I mentioned will break if you use them too hard and all the time. But they are cheap. Speaking of Walmart- or Zellers, or the Christmas Tree Shop, in the decorative flower aisle you can find amazing scratchy dried bouquets or sticks that are really fun.

Riding Crops are my personal favorite- which might be obvious but just in case you didn’t know. If you want to buy one to start, get one with a bit of bend in the handle (stem), because its a bit softer on your partner if you miss, or if you are starting out. The real ones from riding shops are awesome, but really pack a punch. This tool leaves marks. And bruises. So If you can’t have marks, use hands.

Whips you can start with a tiny decorative whip with many leather strips to start, a short one, or one with 10-20 strips or so- it really doesn’t matter with these but the wider the strip the easier it is to start off with, as opposed to a chain whip or a one strip whip which you need to practice using.. The first one I has was miniscule, but perfect, because you can get a good sting out of it and whip your ass and genitals fairly hard without bruising or permanent marks. Ps. I think the ones that feel like kooshballs- are stupid. I can’t get anything out of them personally, they get super dirty super fast and are usually open in the stores for everyone to fondle their nether-regions. I just feel that that is dirtier than the leather ones for some reason. I also had a sweet rope one that hadn’t been frayed yet- it really packed a thud and I loved it, but I only had it on extended loan. Most people like the frayed whips because it gives more of a sting then a thud but I became a fan of this one fast. Course I ended up getting rope burnt but that’s all part of the fun!

And of course there is good old fashioned slapping, everywhere and anywhere, pink belly! Face slapping, ass slapping, clit slapping, build up to it and it can be phenomenal. Just watch the eyes and nose when face slapping to start.

Cleave gags are all well and good but now you want to mix it up. Try a cleve gag with cloth shoved in the mouth behind it, or a ball gag. Course with this you might want to work out an alternate code system other than red-yellow-green, the best one I know of is using one finger to tap soft but repeatedly somewhere on your partner. That way you can flail all you want and they wont think you are trying to get loose. It’s a trick used in wrestling: real versus fake taps. And again, if your hands are tied and you are gagged- you are pretty much to the point where you trust your partner to know what you like and dont like and to check in with your eyes now and then even if you are blindfolded, for signs.

Choking You need to start slow, even train yourself by wearing tight adjusted dog chains out to the club or to dinner under a sweater or scarf. Sometimes you can find a length that tightly fits around perfectly without any slack. It took me a while but i found one, and I loooove wearing it at really odd times. hehe. And of course, during the best times.. You can even use a tightly tied scarf, tie it tight enough that you can slip a hand in, that way you can pull on it or have someone else pull on it now and then but can have it loose when you need it to be - and you dont have to break scene to fumble with the attachment. If you buy a collar make sure when it is snugly on you that you aren’t on the last hole- it’s just common sense. Then again there is good old fashioned hand to neck action, and hand over mouth or foot over mouth smothering. mmmm.

Wax and temperature a good way to start with wax (besides dipping your fingers into a candle) is by buying low melt candles of course, but also veggie and soy wax candles. They are low melt so low temperature, and turn into oil on the skin, or soy can be kind of greasy, but they was off with hot water, and it comes out of carpets and sheets with a hot wet facecloth. Speaking of this sort of hotness, glass toys (dildos and anal plugs) are my new love. They can be heated up in warm water, boiled to sanitize, and frozen and don’t change a bit. You can also freeze your regular toys or buy the water-bottle ice cube trays to make icey fingers .. muahha

So another blog has come to an end, tossing lots of ideas out there fore you that you may not have considered- BDSM on a Budget haha. And with that:
Toy Recommendations
-A long-handled Bamboo Paddle
-Wartenburg wheel or pastry cutter
-Veggie Oil Candles
-Potato Scrub Brush/or Mush Brush
- Piece of fuzzy fabric
-Clover Nip clamps
- Mill Bastard File
-Clothespins

And for pic of the week- I would like to share with you my newest fridge magnet, which reminds me that the possibilities are endless:
Magnet

Question of the Week:
Who’s a Good Kitty?

Thanks for reading!

LittleRed


Roommates

Posted by LittleRed
In Smut
28Feb 08

This is part one to a very long and sexy scene I am imagining.. just a teaser to start off an amazing several part filthy fuck-fest.
Enjoy!!
Little Red

Amanda was fast asleep on the futon, half hanging over the edge, feet dangling onto the floor. It was an unnaturally bright Sunday morning, nearly the afternoon-but she was unwakable, spent- even though there was a bright stream of sunlight beaming across her lovely face. Sure, there had been drinking the night before , in fact, there had been much more. Kris revisited the night prior in her mind, shocked and excited all over again…

*****************************************************************************

The long-time roommates had gone out dancing and drinking, a last minute decision initiated on a stale Thursday’s midnight. They arrived stunning at the club a the perfect hour for picking up, and the pickings weren’t slim, much to their surprise and delight. Regardless, they couldn’t just choose right away and loved the art of tease. Amanda would start grind-dancing on the floor with a hip sway that would make a straight girl twitch. A few possibilities approached during this evening’s beginning, one particularly well dressed, and Amanda grabbed him, pulling him close. She held him hard by his belt and began straight away with him, grinding her clit into his thigh, breathing heavily into his ear, rubbing his neck with her soft hands, her long red nails gently grazing his cheeks and lips. She seductively danced, ever so often flashing him a dirty smile followed by a deep sigh, looking down towards her goods. He returned the look- this guy seemed like the winner.

Kris needed another drink to get in that sort of mood. She wasn’t up for all that hassle she just wanted the right , clean guy to come up to her and grab her. She kept her distance so that Amanda could work her magic… and so quickly. “What a lucky Bitch”, she thought. “I want a good fuck tonight too- how is it so easy for her?”

As she sipped her thick White Russian she looked around, wondering where her thick white russian was- or rather- her thick anything. No one caught her eye. She swirled the cherries around in the bottom of her glass by their firm stems and sighed. As she stared at their plump,perfect redness which reminded her of sleek red fetish shoes strapped onto toned calves. Her crossed legs were transmitting her throb from her legs, up her arms to her lips where her fingers were resting in sexual frustration. She thought about her own cherry doused in a milky sauce. She stood up to “adjust her skirt” at least that’s what she hoped people would think she was doing, when she really was checking her “situation”. *Fuck* She thought to herself after her 2 second self- exploration. She was super lubed and ready to go- her panties had a thick white layer of “Fuck Me”. Touching herself, even for that split second, turned her on even more. She had just shaved before going to the bar- and was very certain that she would be super smooth. She loved the feel of her slippery, wet, smooth shaven pussy to her fingers. She loved to stroke it while getting pounded. She loved to slap it while fucking herself with her dildo, and the wet splash sound that the slap gave off made her cum so hard everytime. But she needed more tonight. She didn’t want a toy, or a finger, or the shower-head. She wanted a thick hard dick. She started to worry that she might have soaked through her skirt and wanted desperatley to go to the washroom to check.

She popped the last cherry from her drink into her mouth and sucked it gently until it burst open. She rubbed the texture of the fruit back and forth across her tongue, sucking in it’s sweetness and enjoying how it felt the same on her tongue as her pussy did to her fingers. She had to get to the bathroom. She either had to masturbate or get fucked, NOW. She found Amanda on the dance floor, pressed hard still against the stranger, his hands tucked into her dress-pants on her bare skin, his tongue rimming her ear sensually. She was clearly ready to go, Kris observed. Kris didn’t want to interrupt but didn’t want to abandon her post. She tapped Amanda on the shoulder (didn’t work). She honked Amanda’s breast playfully which got her attention long enough to tell her where she was going. “But”, Amanda added to her nod, “Don’t be too long, I want to go home soon.. Horny.. Need.. Dick.” ” I know, I won’t.” replied Kris, smiling nicely as she could at her roomies booty call.

As she worked her way through the crowd to the bathroom, she was knocked back and forth and grabbed- but only by accident.. “Ughh” she exclaimed, to her self- as she was pushed into a set of speakers. Hard bodies grinding and bass pounding, all she could think of was how much she wanted to be pounded, so she laid against the speaker a while longer, half in dispair, half in pleasure from her mons pressed against the speaker’s vibrations. It wasn’t enough though so she continued on her way. The line was awful. The sinks were free and clean with a long counter space that seemed inviting enough so she headed over to dab cold water on her face to cool down, at least above the waist. “What a waste, she thought. I’d do fucking anything for a bone.. If some lucky guy was to take me home right now I would suck him dry, lick is feet, eat his ass, anything and everything if only he would promise to bend me over my dresser and …” She was shocked by a hard slap on her ass. It was so welcome at this point that she was delayed in turning around..

.. to find no one there. She decided to be brave and not stand for that sort of behavior.
“Whoever just did that better be able to follow up when they get out of that stall!”
She yelled out. Her heart raced. She hated confrontation but was too frustrated and angry to put up with that besides being too horny for her own good. She was hoping that if she did get into a scuff she could either rid her self of her frustration or be rescued by a hot bouncer..

A door opened and she hear Amanda’s voice, “Get over here silly.” What a dissapointment..
“Give me your panties” Amanda ordered.
“Excuse Me??!!” Kris’ jaw dropped.
“I need your panties, now.”
“Get your own!?” Kris laughed.. nervously..
“Seriously. I’m not wearing any right now and I should have. I promised this guy a lapdance and I need panties to give him one- besides that I am so fucking wet right now and my pants are soaked. Plus I know the ones you are wearing are cute, I saw you come out of the shower- I want to flash him something cute and filthy.”
“You should have thought of that before” replied Kris.

Amanda grabbed Kris’ hips and pulled her forward hard, sitting herself down on the toilet.
Kris felt a shiver run up her body. She was going to lose it. This was getting really weird. She was so in the middle. Amanda was still holding tight on to her hips and had started pulling up her skirt, her nails meeting hips as she went. Kris loved having her hips, bitten, sucked on, scratched and held during sex. Amanda was so cute and vulnerable now, maybe she could trade this favor for another, thought Kris.. maybe she could get a piece of the stranger. “Please?” Pouted Amanda, her wide green eyes staring up at her savior, “I really need this from you..”

None of this mattered though, thought Kris, because her panties were soaked and sweaty. “No.. they’re dirty.” She whispered.
“They can’t be.. You just showered before coming here”, and Amanda started to pull them down, placing her twisting wrist unintentionally on Kris’ mons as she steadied herself to pull down, “Plus, this way you can at least say that SOMEONE got in your panties tonight…”

“Don’t” Kris put her left hand in front of her nearly revealed pussy and held on to her lacy boycut panties. Moist under her hand she could feel the heat being generated, and smell her desire steaming upward towards her face.

“We’re both girls here.. I’m horny. I want this to happen as I imagined and played through my mind while rubbing my wet pussy on this fucking hot dudes leg. I felt his cock on my ass when we were dancing- I couldn’t help but inspect the goods. His balls were sweaty but he is fucking thick and uncut. I can’t wait to have it in my mouth, understand? That’s rare. Then, I am going to ride his face. So fucking give me your panties you little slut.”

She smiled devilishly, and pulled the panties down as far as they would go with Kris’ thighs clenched. “Bare, wow! You are a dirty little bitch aren’t you.” She ran her two fingers across the freshly shaven plane, stopping just above the clit. “Damn, I’m jealous,” She said , with her fingers still resting there.. “I can never get that smooth without spreading it for a stranger.. which I do anyway but it’s much more gratifying outside of the salon. Step out pretty cunt”, she finished, holding out the edges of the panty, as if it would be that easy to get Kris to strip…

Kris was biting her lip at the caressing of her bare landing strip, trying not to say anything..
“Open up, I want these off! Do it or I will go home to the guy’s place and you can forget about masturbating to the sound of us fucking.” Amanda pulled down on the panties, and noticed that Kris had allowed her thighs to part, and that the panties were somewhat stuck to her pussy. “Sweaty are we? I don’t mind..” As she pulled she saw a thick clear string form and lengthen, from the crotch of the panties to the shapely and newly shaven puss across from her lips. She gasped.

Kris lowered her head and eyes to the side, ashamed of being caught. “I was really excited .. I was watching you dance and thinking about..”

“Say no more… I had no idea..” Amanda grinned. She could use this to her advantage for sure. She pulled the slippery panties down and off.. and held them up victoriously. “What a beautiful pussy you are you are what a beautiful pussy you are” she quoted. She held the panties to her nose and breathed deep. “They aren’t dirty.. they smell sweet and soft.. Come here.”


Kris inched towards her roommate, nervously, hands covering her nakedness.
Amanda grabbed her by the hips and puller her close. Kris did as the hands bade her. She sat down, straddling Amanda’s lap, with her hand protecting Amanda’s pants from her excitement. “Put your hands on the wall” And Kris did, slowly. “Hook your legs behind me”.
Kris did want to do this, because it would leave her naked, and spread, visibly dripping down her ass .. all in plain view. “Ugh, can’t you do anything?” Amanda grabbed the quiet one’s legs and flung them around her. “We could get in trouble for having two to a stall.. now they will just think I ate at Arby’s” Amanda smiled, and Kris giggled, trying to cover her mouth but falling back in the process. Thankfully Amanda grabbed her and puller her up. Her smile faded fast though and she said, “Do you want to get caught? We are going to have to wait a little while now because it is so packed in here. Plus the bouncers do checks. Keep your arms and legs up.”

Amanda now switched her attention to the glistening pink dessert below her. “tsk tsk. You can’t get into the cab like that, why didn’t you think to wear panties you little whore”

Kris opened her mouth to protest but was silenced by Amandas hand over her mouth. “Don’t say anything. This is costing me. What if he buys more drinks and can’t get it up when we get home? It will be all.. your.. fault…” she finished by pressing Kris’ mouth into a pout and shaking it back and forth slightly in a scolding manner. “Besides, you can’t get in the cab like this, you will embarrass me and we will have to pay the fucking driver extra because you are a messy little slut. ” Kris’ eyes widened. “You are mine tonight understand?”

Kris nodded. “You do everything I say. You owe me.” Kris nodded again, her mid racing. She wanted a piece of that stranger so desperately, and hoped that being Amanda’s slave meant that for the night she would be slave to both of them, sucking his dick while he sucked on Amanda’s clit, worshipping both of their beautiful round asses, being choked into submission… she felt warmth run across her pussy again and felt embarrassed at her mess. She was a messy little whore.

“I say when you are allowed to make a mess. Understand?” She pulled out a wad of toilet paper and moved in to clean off her leg. Kris tried to block her hand but she almost fell again. “Listen here Slick Puss,” Amanda grabbed Kris by the throat..


“LADIES!!!” A man’s voice yelled out. It was the bouncer, coming in to check in on the bathroom line and activities. Kris gasped, Amanda covered her mouth with her other hand, still grasping her by the throat and gave her a hard stare, whispering, “You don’t want to be found out as a little cunt sucker do you? What would your mother say is she knew you were pussy up in your best freinds lap?”

They heard the male footsteps charge out. “There’s no point in wiping this up, you’ll just make a mess of yourself again”. Amanda let go of Kris’ neck and grabbed her bare ass with a slap, pulling her in closer, and tilting her back further. “We need to do something about your hungry fuck hole”. Amanda slid her index finger from Kris’ clit to her ass and back again. She massaged that little clit with her middle knuckle, holding tight to that round ass with her other hand. Then she slid it down and slipped it in, and twisted it hard. “You’re just a little juice machine, aren’t you, my little Sourpuss.” She licked across her knuckle with her full tongue, and ran her tongue along her teeth. She smacked her lips, sampling it, “My mistake, SugarLips. Fuck you and your goody goody clean shave.. Fuck you, ” She pushed her knuckle in deep so that her nail scratched Kris’ slit. She gasped.

Kris was in another world. This was so unreal. She had never had another girl touch her like that before and yet she was harder and wetter than she had ever been. She was going to let it happen, and serve to please- because even if she didn’t get fucked by that hot stranger and was only allowed to watch- she would still cum hard thinking about Amanda’s strict voice in her ear, and watching her work her magic on the stupid boy with the thick dick from the club.. who obviously didn’t know what he was in for.

Amanda leaned in and whispered in her ear, “You’re a very dirty girl and I am going to have to teach you a lesson. But only after Doctor inspects your little cunt and checks to see if everything is in the right place…” She slid her knuckle out, and slid her middle finger in, just enough to press on Kris’ G-spot, “But, we will have to wait until then to play nice…”

Kris bit her lip again and wiggled her little ass on Amanada’s lap, who quickly pulled other finger. “Ah ah ah.. What did I say.. Close your eyes and think about Doctor. Think about doctor spreading open your hungry little lips..” Kris closed her eyes and drifted off. Amanda reached down for her purse.. “Keep them closed..” she reminded her.. and rustled through it. Kris was deep in imagination, thinking about the stranger in a labcoat fingering her ass and pussy with industrial lube…unaware of the rustling plastic sound..

Kris was deep in dirty doc fantasies when she felt what she thought was Amanda’s knuckle teasing her hole again. She opened her eyes with a start when she felt something thick and hard ram into her puss. And sat up, gasping. Amanda put her hand over Kris’ face, obscuring her vision and pushed her backward. “You like that my little NobGobbler? Keep your mouth shut.” She pulled the hard thing out slowly and started to pump, slow, then fast, slow than fast.. and pulled out again. She shoved her knuckle back into the puddle and ran a scratchy thing softly across Kris’ clit who kept silent but was breathing irregularly. Kris sat up again. Just what the fuck is that, she was dying to know.

Kris finally maneuvered her eyes to be in full view of what ended up being a wooden hair brush… with a.. with a condom over the handle. Oh..

“What did I say, Bitch, about obeying me?”
“I’m sorry…”
“Stand up”
“What?”
“Get up you leaky faucet, stand up!”
Kris did.
“Face the door!”
Kris bent over by the door, and Amanda stood up behind her. Amanda rubbed Kris’ naughty pussy back and forth. “Is that what you like?”
“Oh yes… ..mmmmm”
“You don’t deserve it. Understand? You are going to have to work for every rub. If you touch yourself, I will punish you. Do you understand?”
“Yes”
Amanda pulled the condom of the brush and threw it in the toilet. She rested one hand by Kris’ and with the bristles of the brush in her palm, pulled it back to strike.
“ONE” She whispered into Kris’ ear as she met her target, a bright red line appeared across Kris’ soft ass. “Two” and another line on the other cheek. Kris breathed in deep with each spank.

Amanda pulled Kris up by her hair, and stared her square in the face. ” You’re mine tonight. Put your skirt down now, hide your shame.” Amanda put the hair brush back in her purse, on top of Kris’ little panties. “You’ll get those, ” She said, noticing the direction of Kris’ gaze, “When you will have use for them again. If you are good I will have a surprise for you are home later.” She patted her hair down and wiped off her pants a little. Amanda opened the stall door after grabbing a piece of toilet tissue and bunching it up. She thrust it in Kris’ face. “Hold this to your eyes.”

They exited the stall together, Amanda leading Kris with head down to the exit. “Men..pff” she scoffed at the girls in the long line up, who looked at Kris as if they truely felt sorry for her.

They waited in silence as the same characters (the emotional girl, the caring friend) in the line up to get their coats and headed out into the warm night air to wait for a cab. Kris wondered where the stranger was.. Amanda didn’t look concerned. He must be calling her later to hook up, she explained to herself. As they shuffled into the cab, Amanda grabbed Kris’ ankles to ensure that she got in slowly so that she could climb in on top of her and accidentally on purpose slip her fingers into Kris’s lips and tease her still-soaked cunt that little bit more.. Amanda pushed Kris to sit down and once she told the driver of their destination, she grabbed Kris’ closest thigh and pulled enough to hear a little smack -wet noise. Amanda slid closer to her, and slid her left hand down in between Kris’ moist inner thighs where it rested threatening…

With her body throbbing in anticipation, staring out at the city lights but thinking about the hand on her thigh, Kris felt the cab pull out… and wondered what surprises awaited her at home, and during the ten minute cab ride home through the night..as Ace of Base came on the radio…”All that she wants…”

To be continued…..



Good Sexless in Seattle- I ran across this today and loved it so much that I had to share. I DID NOT WRITE THIS. Original post is here: http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/sea/561877622.html
Enjoy!!

Just fucking fuck me, already.

Date: 2008-02-03, 3:29PM PST

Dear Men of Craigslist,

Look, I know you men have it difficult. Women are just about impossible to understand, much less please. In a post-feminist society, you never know exactly what you should be doing. Women are bloody picky, I know we are. It can be scary, too, when women freak out about what appear to be benign issues. And men who do their best to be respectful, female-positive humans, I salute you, I do.

But please, please just fuck me already. Honestly, I appreciate your thoughtfulness. I like that you want to take things slow. I can totally get behind the idea of emotional connection, but dearjesusinheaven, FUCK ME. We’ve done dinner and drinks. We’ve gone dancing. We’ve cuddled and watched a movie. I’m wearing a low cut shirt and you’ve been staring at my breasts all night. Goodgodalmighty, get to it and fuck me.

When we get hot and heavy, please take charge. Please, please fuck me. Trust me, I’m not going to just lie still - I’ll get involved. But don’t make me force your hand into my panties. That makes me feel like a rapist. We’ve been kissing for a half hour and your hand keeps grazing my ass. That’s nice, but it’s time to move forward. Get on top of me. Don’t make me get on top right out of the gate and start bobbing up and down on your cock like I’m practicing some crazy new aerobic yoga because YOU won’t go down on me. Roll on top and start dry humping like a good boy should. Don’t gently suck my nipples and then pull back when I moan with pleasure. You being coy is totally not what I want. It’s not what WE want.

OK, I know it’s scary. There are lots of women out there who make fucking really difficult. So, I have compiled some handy tips. Don’t think of this as complaining, or as schadenfreude for the Andrea Dworkins of the world. Just some simple tips, for timid men who have forgotten what it means to fuck like men:

1. Taking charge is not bad. Oh, there will be some women who feel that you are pushy. If you are making out with a woman, and she starts to push back, ask nicely if things are moving too fast. If she says yes, say something like “I’m sorry - you just look so fucking delicious. I’ll go slower.” Otherwise, skillfully move forward. If you start kissing a woman, and she responds well, and before long, you’re both on the floor with her skirt pushed up, and you on top of her, it’s not the time to roll onto your back and start awkwardly stroking the top of her head. Seriously, grow a goddamn pair. YOU’RE the man. Act like one.

2. Ohmyfuckinggod, please learn to respect the clit. It’s different for every woman, so ask what she likes. Do not, I repeat, do not just wiggle your fingers around her pussy like you’re trying to tickle her. Do not drum your fingertips against her vulva like you are impatiently waiting at the Sears Tire Center for your receipt. Do not push the clit like it is a doorbell at some house that you need to get inside of. Start by using all four fingers with firm yet gentle pressure against the outside of her pussy. Do not charge in with a single finger and start jabbing at things. And if you really don’t know what to do, ask her. Just ask. “How do you like it?”. It’s a simple question, and most women will answer straight out. If she’s being all coy, ask “Do you like pressure? Is it sensitive?” The clitoris is a varied item, indeed. Treat each one as though you have never encountered one before. Forget everything that your last partner liked.

3. Most women like to be fucked, and fucked well. Yes, there are women out there who want to “make love” every time - sweet, gentle, rocking love with lots of eye contact and loving kisses. Those women are not the majority. The majority like to be pounded. The majority like to have their hair pulled. The majority like a good, solid jackhammering. When a woman is bucking wildly against you, it’s not because she wants you to pull back and slowly swirl your cock around her vagina like you’re mixing a cake batter up there. It’s because she wants you to hold down her arms, or grab her hips, or push her legs above her head, and fuck her harder. Don’t be too afraid of what this means as far as gender equality goes - I am a raging feminist bitch, but I still want to be penetrated like you are planning on fucking my throat from the inside out.

4. A little roughness is nice. Do not pretend that you had no idea that some women like their hair pulled. Do not act shocked if she wants you to spank her (”Really? Spanking? Won’t it hurt?” - yes, it does. That’s the fucking point). We know you’ve read Stuff and Maxim, and that’s all those laddie mags talk about in their “How to Please Her” sections. Start with light, full handed smacks to the area of her ass that she sits on. Judge her response and continue on from there. You don’t have to bend her over one knee and tell her she’s a naughty girl and that Daddy’s going to punish her; save that for the fifth date. Women are less delicate than you think, so don’t worry about breaking her hip.

5. It’s OK for you to make noise. Otherwise, we feel like we are fucking a ninja. Unless you actually are a ninja, and have sneaked into our rooms with vibrating nanuchaku and zippered black pajamas, please, please make some noise. If you’re banging a woman, and she’s crying out and saying your name and moaning, and you can’t even manage a grunt, she’s going to feel like an idiot. You don’t have to make the sounds she is making, but do SOMETHING. You know how when you are watching porn, and the girl does something great to the guy and the guy kind of goes “Ah!”, half grunt, half yell? That’s HOT. Do that. Whisper our name (assuming you know it) gruffly. Groan against her neck when you’re in missionary position. You don’t have to grunt like a mountain gorilla, but if you are totally mute, she’s going to get worried.

6. Most women like dirty talk, in addition to the grunting. If you’d like to get some dirty talk going, ask her if she likes the way you fuck her. If she responds well, continue with something like, “I love fucking you. God, you look so fucking hot.” Is she still moaning in response? “Your tits are so beautiful.” Does that work? If she doesn’t respond well to the term “tits”, you might have to stop there. If she keep moaning or responding, pass Go and collect $200. Try the following:

“Oh, god. Your pussy is SO tight.”
“You’re so wet - are you wet because you like the feel of my cock ramming you?”
“I think I’m going to come inside you. I’m going to fill up your little cunt.” It doesn’t matter that you’re wearing a condom; we LOVE hearing this.

If all of those work, you can then progress to things like “sexy little bitch” and “dirty whore”. Tread carefully, but please, tread. Do not tiptoe. Do not sit down. Charge.

6. You’re not obligated to eat a woman out. In return, she’s not obligated to choke on your dick. Don’t skip one and expect the other. If you do eat a woman out, the only comment you should make about her pussy is how nice it is. The length of her labia minora, the color of her interior, her waxing job or full bush - you are not John Madden. No time for color commentary.

7. Do not bitch about condoms. Oh, we hate them. Trust us. They hurt us more than they hurt you. But we don’t want to be preggers, and you don’t want to catch anything, right? Don’t whine about condom sex. Do not explain that you can’t come with one on. LEARN to come with one on, or if not, help us figure out what to do with you once we’re satisfied and it’s time for you to let loose your load.

8. We really like it when you come. It’s called a money shot for a reason. Watching semen shoot out of you is one of the most gratifying things EVER. However, do not assume that she wants you to jack it off onto her face. She might, but don’t assume. Seeing and/or feeling you come is rewarding for us, so there’s no need to deprive us of it, but please do consult us before unleashing. “I think I’m going to come - how do you like it?” is a fair question that shouldn’t rob you of your testicles.

In recent memory, I’ve been fucked by a very aggressive, manly guy, and I’ve been… well, fucked is the wrong term here. I’ve been penetrated by a total and utter wuss. Who am I going to run back to when I’m ready for my fill? Manly McHardon, that’s who. —————————————————-

*New point of clarification - some people have brought up some really great issues in response to this post, so let me say this: I don’t mean to imply that all women like to be treated like whores. I do mean to say that most women I know have told me that they like sex rougher than most men give it to them. Rough does NOT equal chains and bondage. And this applies to the bedroom only, and does not mean that she wants you to choose her dinner for her, or treat her like less of a person. **Some women have said that they don’t like it rough and what the hell am I thinking? Well, girls, you’re in the minority. HOWEVER, all women need to remember that, in addition to be straight forward about your sexual desires, you need to be straight forward about your sexual limits. Don’t be afraid to ask for more, but when something feels wrong, say so. Don’t ever do something you don’t want to do in silence and then blame the guy. Silence is dangerous.

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LittleRed



..unless your hands are diiirty…

This originally was going to be a post about hands and feet- but again, I have to start at the very beginning- a very hard place to start honestly.. So once I had gotten halfway through this I was going nuts and decided to break and write my own smut- and i did- part one. I will post it very soon once i get it proofread for fuckups :)

Hand Holding is something that many of us actually enjoy in relationships – though often not in public. A hand touch can mean so many things but generally hints at intimacy.

That first time that you are watching a movie with a crush, and your heart is pounding- you want to step up the level of the relationship with the other person and so you or they inch hands towards each other.. and this turns to hand or thumb rubbing, grazing of forearms.. the movie goes on and you come together from that.. and you know things are good now and will progress soon – woo!

These are things we can do under a table to communicate with each other- rubbing hands on thighs, playing footsies- sending the messages that we can’t say due to present company.

GIRL MEETS BOY
GIRL HAS CRUSH ON BOY FOR YEARS
GIRL TELLS BOY EVENTUALLY AND BOY SAYS THE SAME
GIRL AND BOY HAVE WAAAAAY TOO MANY COMMON FRIENDS AND NO REAL NEED FOR A RELATIONSHIP- BUT WANT TO GET IT ON
GIRL AND BOY GO TO SHOW
BESIDES ALL THE EYES THEY’VE BEEN MAKING AT EACH OTHER FOR YEARS… BOY PUTS HAND ON GIRL’S THIGH BECAUSE MUTUAL FRIENDS ARE AROUND
GIRL IS WET AND WANTS TO GO HOME WITH HIM- NOW
IT HAPPENS.
THEY AREN’T SEXUALLY COMPATABLE. PHOEY.

But nothing compares to the feel of the chase. NOTHING.

Massages are the way to go. They can help you get your mitts on nearly anyone- if you know what you are doing and approach it properly.

GIRL MEETS BOY
BOY IS MASSAGE THERAPIST
GIRL DOES NOT ASK FOR MASSAGE.
BOY’S FRIEND ASKS ALOUD WHY HE ISNT MASSAGING GIRL
BOY PUTS HANDS ON GIRL
GIRL IS NOT COOL WITH IT BUT LETS IT HAPPEN
BOY IS NOT ATTRACTIVE TO GIRL BECAUSE HE IS A PUSH OVER AND DISRESPECTFUL
“GEE YOUR SHOULDERS ARE TENSE”
“THAT’S BECAUSE YOU ARE TOUCHING ME”

Then there is the art of the HUG. This is hilarious. I’m not a huggy person by nature, and a lot of people aren’t. But you better believe that many non-huggies fake a wicked time in order to hug everyone in order to hug the cute girl. You give everyone the hug tap, but you give her the hug rub, and deal with having to hug everyone else for those few sweet moments of contact. Hehe.

Back to massages- the back massage is another way of getting your mitts on someone- but good god, know how to do it. And don’t practice on your “target” first, you fool.
There is also the “massage trade”. “Could you put pressure on this point on my back? Oh thank you so much I have been working so hard. If you get the other one I’ll give you a foot massage.. (or a shoulder massage as well).

Massage- is something that I would say you could benefit from a book in buying, as well as REFLEXOLOGY… but as for that I am saving a whole entry for it because I have an idea :)
Giving a foot massage is much easier in the summer because the person is not afraid if their feet stinking if they are that kind of person, and they don’t have to take anything off.

The feet, are VERY underappreciated for being under everything else. They get used and abused, calluses, scrapes, bruises, blisters- and we barely do anything for them. If you meet someone who takes care of their feet with a pedicure every now and then- don’t think of it as a vanity thing.. it’s their way of giving back to their body.
Mind you- I find pedicures a huge waste of money because I can do much much better myself.. Oh and I don’t mean just the ladies! Because men- and women- as much as I love getting scratched hard by your dirty toe nail in bed.. oh wait, I don’t.

As with Tantric sex, worshipping any part of your partner’s body and giving it attention- ESPECIALLY if it is not a sex organ, can be a huge turn on and a HUGE sensual gesture, not anything weird. And definitely much appreciated- a hand or a foot massage- ca be a huge turn on- not only for the contact in it, but the fact that the giver of that massage is showing their dedication to your body and their investment in you, for all that you give them. Ladies- if the guy wants to, let him touch your feet! He knows you had sneakers on all day. (though if that’s really the only barrier for you, a cosmetic pad and rubbing alcohol does wonders.

Hands and feet and proper care of them are of immense importance to me and too often improperly done. Here are the tools I would recommend for the perfect kit:
- Nail Clippers
-Nail Scissors (so handy for hangnails or broken nails, easier to control than clippers)
-A Crystal nail file (crystal ones are a bit more expensive- but can be cleaned in the dish washer and don’t promote the growth of bacteria as regular files do
- A 6-side nail buffer. Stops them from splitting, makes them shiny and clean and strong. You can use the darkest side to buff away dead skin from anywhere.
- But if you want something better for that dead skin try a crystal heel buffer on your feet, elbows and knees.
- Okay- a foot model secret here folks. VITAMIN E CREAM. Not the “with vitamin e” crap, but Actual Vitamin E cream. You can find it with the skin stuff and it never comes in a pump; You put it over your feet al over at night- when you wake up the next day- BEAUTIFUL soft skin and toes, soft and perfect.. no longer dry, nothing. Works for anywhere, and helps with scars.

For a foot massage you have to learn in a book as well.
If the book you are considering has pics of a couple in lingerie, PUT IT DOWN.
It sucks. Look for a book that somewhere shows you the inside of the foot or pics of muscles. None of this sensual shit. You are what makes it sensual, not that weirdo couple that is a total turn off to look at. If you don’t have time (yes you do but whatever), just start by rubbing in vitamin e cream or lotion to their feet. You can kiss them as you go and toss in a playful nibble on the baby toe… you can laugh when you do it or make a chomp noise.. just in case you are unsure of how they will feel. Laughing is something we do when we are joking, or uncomfortable, but generally people think it’s because of passion and happiness… so they wont know its because you are nervous. You can do the same with a hand massage. And I have done it too. Here I am going on and on about how to touch. You think we’d know by now. A lot of people don’t and everyone is different anyway… but before you shove a plug in someone’s mouth and ass and fuck them hard with a glass dildo while using sharp medical tools on them, you have to know what it is about that that they love. And that comes with time, communication and research.

Ladies- a sexual position tip for you when doing a guy. If you are riding on top facing your partner, hook your feet into their highs and spread them. Rub their inner thighs with the soft tops of your feet. Likewise, if you are under and missionary, toss your feet on their shoulders, or hook them around their back and rub them. Actually in that first position you should be able to slightly rub their balls with your feet- it’s a stretch but you can do it .

Essentially, sex and sensual situations can be thought of like a fistfight. You aren’t going to limit yourself to your hands: you’re going to trip the asshole. So don’t rule out your feet, wrists, knuckles, ankles and calves during sensual play. You can even use your feet to hold a dildo or vibe, leaving your hands free for any other area you want to pay attention to.

And i leave you with a photo of an ancient statue in the louvre “Eros and Psyche”, very sensual and even sexual, but no hand to crotch combat involved :)
Eros and Psyche Statue at the Louvre Museum, Paris

Little Red’s Q of the Week:
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Thanks for reading!
LittleRed


Daddy’s Little Girl

Posted by LittleRed
In Role Play, Smut
24Feb 08

A weekend treat for you!
I asked a guest writer to contribute a sexy piece of literature to the site that tied in to the last entry “I Put On My Robe And My Wizard Hat”.

So pull up your chair, pull over the box of kleenex or the sexiest object in the room and enjoy
The Incest Taboo
by Jara Jacobus
Originally Published on Literotica.com

Enjoy!!
LittleRed
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**This is a story about the role playing of incest, and does not actually involve any direct incest. Comments are more than welcome. If you have questions about terms used in the story, either e-mail me or do a Google search to learn more.**

Lenore was an 18 year old goth bombshell right out of high school. It was the last summer vacation she would have before she actually had to get serious about her future.

She was tall, slender and fit in perfectly with the ‘Glam Goth’ stereotype. She wore fishnet stockings with short black skirts that would come down just past her ass along with whatever tight shirt she felt showed off her boobs that day.

Lenore was particularly fond of her ‘goth boots’. She donned a pair of knee-high Demonia platform buckle boots daily. Her smooth raven black hair fell to her mid back and was usually in pig tails, accentuated with red and white dread locks. She accentuated her eyes with black eyeliner and purple eye shadow.

Throughout high school, it wasn’t only the goth boys that chased after her. And with the clothes she wore to school, she was sent home more than once.

Since graduating high school, Lenore had taken to talking to older men on the internet. She found a site specifically for the purpose of exploring her sexual fantasies and had every intention of fulfilling them. There was one sexual fantasy that had always gotten her wet beyond belief, and that was the taboo of a Daddy fucking his daughter.

Lenore had met a 45 year old man named Foster on this site that she had talked to for weeks, getting to know his inner fantasies of incest. He was a married business man, but had no children. He and his wife were swingers and had been since before they got married. Foster often talked about his wife fondly an described her for Lenore.

Lenore loved the way Foster made her feel online. He brought out the little girl in her soul. Foster had described how he and his friends had goth fetishes. They had even come up with a word to describe their fairly newly found interest in goth girls. Death Cookies. Lenore quickly became Fosters online Death Cookie.

Both Lenore and Foster wanted more, though. When they had first started exchanging e-mails, they both knew it wouldn’t stay online for long and that it would move fast once they met up.

Plans were made to meet up for coffee one summer afternoon. She wore her sexiest goth attire, which she usually only took out to go clubbing. Lenore ordered an iced chocolate drink and sat on the patio, waiting for Foster to show up. Only a few minutes passed before a shadow fell on her table. Lenore looked up to see an older bearded man standing over her.

“Lenore?” He smiled pleasantly at her.

She smiled as she stood up to greet him with a hug. “Should I call you Daddy now or later?” she joked.

He laughed and sat down with his coffee in hand. “I hope you haven’t been waiting long.”

Lenore brushed a stray strand of her black hair out of her eye. “No, I just ordered.”

They sat and talked awkwardly for mere moments before relaxing with each other. Lenore crossed her legs and lifted her eyes to look into his seductively.

“You really are a beautiful Death Cookie, you know…” he trailed off, his eyes lingering on her creamy white legs that were covered in fishnet.

She blushed slightly. “Thank you…”

“Listen,” he started “I’m getting hard just sitting here looking at you. Do you think we might be able to move this…elsewhere?”

Lenore nodded. “I would like that. Did you have somewhere in mind?” her eyes sparkled in the sunlight as they stood up.

“I actually looked up some hotels in this area, if you would like to get a room for the night.” he said, pulling directions out of his pocket.

They walked to Fosters car together and just before he opened the door for her to get in, her turned her to face him.

Lifting her chin up to meet his, they kissed passionately. Her tongue flicked against his and he brought his arms around her body and pulled her in closer. When they broke apart, he smiled down at her. “Such a sweet young Death Cookie…”

Foster opened the door for her and she climbed in. As they were driving, the conversation turned to rules that had been set out by Fosters wife. While they may be swingers, and were free to fuck whomever they wished, there were still no-no’s that had to be abided by.

First and foremost, condoms must be used each and every time. This was a safety precaution put in place by Fosters wife to keep all parties involved clean. Lenore had no problems abiding by this, as she had not had many sexual partners in the past and wanted to remain clean. As a precaution, Lenore made sure to remember her birth control pill every day.

They parked in a Pay-lot and walked to the hotel. Pushing through the doors, the concierge lifted his head to greet them with a nod.

“We’d like a room for the night, please.” Foster told the man, his credit card in hand.

“Of course, Sir. One room….two beds for you and your daughter?” he eyed Lenore and then turned back to Foster.

“Dad…” Lenore teased, looking up at Foster.

“No, my daughter and I will need just the one bed, thank you.” and he squeezed her ass.

The man at the desk raised his eyebrows and nodded, mumbling something under his breath. He handed Foster the card for their room. “6th Floor” he said, and turned back to his computer.

Lenore could feel herself growing wet already. She loved the fact that the concierge already thought they were father and daughter.

They headed upstairs together and opened the room. Lenore dropped her purse on a chair and Foster removed the suit jacket he had been wearing over top of his polo shirt. Lenore felt a sharp tug on her hand as Foster grabbed her, twirled her to face him and pushed her against the nearest wall.

“Daddy’s little girl has been so naughty today….letting a stranger take you to a hotel room.” He raised her arms above her head and leaned in to kiss her again.

“I am a naughty little girl, Daddy.” she looked up at him with her dark eyes. He reached under her skirt and began to massage her pussy through her thong. “Daddy…” she whimpered, biting her lower lip.

He moved her towards the bed and let go of her. He sat down in a chair by the bed and folded his arms across his chest. “I want you to get on the bed and undress yourself. Slowly. And turn for me as you do it.” His eyes trailed along the crevices of her breasts. Lenore nodded and got on the bed.

She began to remove her boots, unzipping them. She tossed them to the side of the bed and started removing her shirt. She gave her new Daddy a pouty look and raised her black tank top over her head, revealing a black lace bra. She kneeled on the bed, turning slowly, keeping eye contact with her Daddy as much as possible.

Foster unhinged his belt and unzipped his jeans, pulling out his rock hard cock. “Keep going, baby girl. You’re making Daddy hard.”

Lenore tugged at her skirt with her small hands and bit her lower lip, nodding at him. She unzipped the skirt and let it fall to her knees, removing it. She kneeled on the bed in her knee-length fishnets that were attached to a garter around her waste. She removed her bra, revealing her creamy white breasts.

“Leave the fishnets on, baby girl.” he said, stroking his large cock. Lenore nodded and removed her thong, tossing it on the floor. “Good girl. Now I want you to come over here, kneel down, and suck on Daddy’s cock.”

She climbed off the bed and kneeled down in front of him, grasping his already hard cock in one hand and flicking the tip with her tongue. She moved her hand expertly along the shaft before engulfing the entirety of his hard-on in her mouth. She bobbed her head up and down along his cock, looking up at him with her large eyes as she did so.

“Good girl…” he said, stroking her hair.

Lenore felt herself wanting to be completely obedient to this man who would now be known as her Daddy. She wanted to fulfill his desires and she wanted to please him in any way she could. She was dripping wet thinking about the cock she was sucking on at the moment and how it would soon be filling up every inch of her.

Foster grabbed hold of her hair at the root and lifted her off of his cock. “I want you on the bed. Now.” He motioned with his chin for her to move. He stood up with her and shoved her onto the bed. She looked up at him from the bed as he undressed himself, tossing his own clothes to the side. He crawled onto the bed and pushed her back so that he was on top of her.

He leaned down, kissing her again. Their lips locked madly. He grasped hold of her hair again as he forced her down on the bed. “You like it when Daddy is rough with you, baby girl? When Daddy takes control?”

Lenore nodded up at him. “Yes, Daddy.”

“Will you let Daddy do whatever he wants with you?”

She nodded again. “I’m yours, Daddy.”

He began to kiss down her neck, moving lower with each breath. He took one of her nipples in his teeth and bit down gently and then flicked it with his tongue before doing the same with the other one. Lenore gasped softly.

Foster began to move lower, trailing his tongue over her soft young flesh until he buried his face in her cleanly shaven pussy. He licked at her pussy juices. “You’re all wet for Daddy, aren’t you baby girl?” He said, flicking the tip of his tongue against her clit.

Lenore’s hips jumped slightly and she arched her back. “Yes, Daddy…I love feeling your tongue on my pussy…” She bit her lower lip to stifle a moan.

He continued to lick at her cunt, bring two fingers up the side of leg until they met with her engorged labia. He slowly pushed his fingers inside her, feeling just how tight his 18 year old little whore really was. He started finger fucking her faster and faster, still licking at her clit.

“Oh Gods…Daddy….I’m cumming…” she moaned loudly. He finger fucked her harder, feeling her muscles cotnract against his fingers.

“That’s it, baby…come for Daddy…” He brought his body over hers once more and kissed her passionately. Lenore could taste her own juices on his lips.

He stroked his cock, and felt that it was still rock hard as he watched this sweet young 18 year old grow wet for his mature cock. He wanted her so badly. He wanted to feel every inch of her inside him.

Foster got up off the bed suddenly, grabbing his pants and pulling a condom out of the back pocket. He slipped it on over his cock as quickly as possible before jumping back on the bed. He grabbed hold of Lenore’s hair again, pulling her up and forcing her into a doggy position. He pushed her front down on the bed and held her arms behind her as he angled his cock inside her.

He began to pound into her tight little cunt, making her scream out for him. “Oh Gods….Daddy….fuck me harder, please!” she begged.

He obliged by bringing himself out and then slamming into her pussy to the hilt. “Fuck!” she screamed.

Foster suddenly pulled out of her, realizing that he wasn’t going to be able to cum. Lenore twisted herself around and sat down on the bed. “Is everything ok?”

“Yeah, it’s great. I just can’t cum with a condom on.” He said, stroking his gloved cock.

Lenore nodded. “We can take a break for a sec if you like. I know you have to wear them for your wife’s sake” Foster obliged by collapsing on the bed next to her. He slid the condom off and tossed it in the trash basket by the desk along the wall of their hotel room.

He wrapped his arms around her and pulled her close to him. “You’re so sweet to me, baby girl.”

Lenore draped her legs over his torso and looked into his eyes. He continued to stroke his cock. She leaned in and kissed him. “I’m your toy to do with as you please, you know, Daddy.” she said to him. He kissed her back and began to playfully rub his cock along her clit. She was even more wet than she was before and he loved teasing her.

Lenore bit her lip and began to kiss him again. They opened their eyes and he looked at her darkly before sliding his naked cock into her cunt. Lenore said nothing, but gasped slightly.

Foster rolled her over on her back and lifted her legs up to his shoulders and began to fuck her pussy forcefully with his naked cock. “You like that don’t you? You like it when Daddy fucks you without a condom on.” He pounded into her.

Lenore let out a loud moan in agreement. Foster slowed down and played with her clit as he slid in and out of her slowly. “I’m going to cum now, baby girl…Daddy’s going to cum…” He held onto her legs and moved himself in and out of her rhythmically until he could feel himself cumming, Lenore looked up into his eyes. He pulled out of her as most of his cum shot across her breasts.

“Good girl.” He said, standing up to grab a towel for her from the bathroom. He tossed it at her and she wiped the sticky cum from her chest. “Next time, baby girl, I’m going to fuck that ass of yours, too.”

Lenore nodded and smiled. “Yes, Daddy.”

She hoped there would be more role playing with her new Daddy. She loved the feeling of his naked cock inside her, even though it was against the rules. She was going to be Daddy’s little girl from now on.

They climbed under the covers and fell asleep in each others arms.

Written By Jara Jacobus
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http://www.literotica.com/stories/memberpage.php?uid=815489&page=submissions
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Whoa Whoa- Easy Now- Calm Down- Back the Truck Up- That’s what you are going to hear if you jump into this out of nowhere. As in- if you jump out of the closet in full wizard gear after only ever having missionary’d the girl with the lights off and her bra still on.

You can’t just jump into these things- with most people- without one person coming away from the situation- not having cum. Yeah she’ll fake it for the wizard because she’s still thinking WTF and is too much of an idiot to ask what’s up.

In order to get into scenes, you have to lead up to it. I know most of you know this- and honestly, I was dreading writing this. I will be very glad to have the very basics out of the way.

Ok- so you have to lead up to it. Good things come to those who wait- and we all know that when we know the meaning of something to someone- it can change the meaning of that thing in our minds, especially if it is the opinion of someone we love…or really want to get in their pants.

STORY TIME
Comes early today.

GIRL IS AT COFFEE SHOP WAITING TO INTERVIEW SLAVE
(already you can see how much I hate nosy people)
GIRL IS TRANSLATING A LANGUAGE
OLDER MAN NEXT TO HER USES IT TO STRIKE UP A CONVO
MAN ASKS TO BORROW A PEN
GIRL IS ANNOYED.
MAN BRINGS PEN BACK AND COMMENTS ON HER BEAUTY
GIRL KNOWS WHERE THIS IS GOING
DID GIRL MENTION THAT THERE IS MORE THAN ONE GIRL AT THE TABLE?
MAN ASKS TO TAKE HER TO DINNER
GIRL SAYS SHE IS BUSY
MAN SAYS “HOW ABOUT NEXT WEEK”
GIRL SAYS, “LOOK, LET ME SAVE YOU A WHOLE LOT OF TROUBLE”
MAN BARELY STOPS TALKING
GIRL SAYS WE WOULDNT BE COMPATIBLE IN BED
MAN IS SHOCKED
GIRL SAYS “I HAVE A PONY FETISH”
MAN IS SHOCKED
GIRL SAYS “DO YOU HAVE A PONY FETISH”?
MAN DOESNT GET IT.
GIRL IGNORES THE FACT THAT THE WHOLE COFFEE SHOP IS LOOKING AND SAYS
“I LIKE TO MAKE MEN DRESS UP LIKE PONIES WITH ANAL PLUG TAILS AND RIDE THEM AROUND MY HOUSE USING SPURS TO MAKE THEM GO FASTER AND THEN NOT HAVE SEX WITH THEM EVER. ARE YOU A PONY?”
MAN EXCUSES HIMSELF
GIRL GOES BACK TO READING.

So, generally, you don’t just bring up a big fetish like that when you first meet someone. You have to bring it up slowly with someone you actually like. Yes, Girl was using it for shock in one sense- but Girl actually loves a lot about pony play.

So, say that you and your partner are sucking each other’s faces, to be blunt, lol and you say something like:
“What if I was your sexy boss and you were my secretary.. what would you say to me? what would you do to me next?” And if that works- give them a minute lol.. and they might say something like. “I am so sorry that the blah blah case wasn’t wrapped up in time, perhaps I can make it up to you?” and then they start to undo your pants.. So if you want to get into scene- start pushing their head down that way.. :P and after/ during that.. you could say ” Just how badly do you want to keep your position? Show me a position you could ever love more…”
and so on..

You are playing here, but still yourselves, bordering on a scene- there is nothing wrong with wandering between your character and you as you narrate to a degree- it can really help get in the mood going .. And that way if you have to giggle (sidenote- escorts who use “*giggle*” in their ads drive me fucking nuts- in the angry way). Having tried this,you can go for longer and longer in different scenarios.. without having to say ” and then..” “NO And then!!” (AWFUL MOVIE) . and you can run with it from there.

But when you run from there- you will eventually end up in a scene that is more taboo and you have to be able to stop in case you hear something that flips a bad memory switch or something along those lines, especially with play involving implied incest, play rape, sexual assault/harassment etc.

As cute as Banana is for a safety word- I think it’s stupid. But that’s because it’s a reference I would use in a scene but I also do a lot of scenes with humiliation- or what if you are doing a kitchen or grocery store scene? Not thinking this through!!
So here is the system that most people use- the Stoplight System (not sure if it’s actually called that, but whatever).

Green-Yellow-Red

You call out GREEN - though really it is rarely used- when you want something harder, faster, more intensified, angrier, rougher, etc.

YELLOW is used for when something sort of hurt- emotionally or physically, and not in the good way, or you were uncomfortable, getting chafed. Basically means “please don’t do that again”. Or could mean, “you might what to move your mouth because I am gassy”. DO NOT BREAK SCENE. Because this word means that “everything is totally hot but that sucked, give me a sec and i’ll be on my way again for sure”. If you are strong enough to say YELLOW, make sure your partner is equally strong to keep going, not to stop and cry that they are so sorry they hurt you and cradle you stroking your hair when they should be putting that stroke to good use elsewhere. We’re adults, we can say- sorry I hurt you there- later- and keep fucking going :).

RED means “I’m really fucking hurt (emo or otherwise), I hate this, This isn’t what I wanted, Get out of character NOW. Red- means stop and now. So stop.

CONTEXT- as with any sentence and language is soooo soo important. If someone says to you “I am the green king of the woods, bend over so that I might deposit my seed into you if you are worthy” That isn’t invoking green. Or. “Put that big fucking red thing in my ass!” Doesn’t mean to not put it in. Put the damn thing in!!

To review, a scene is a role play or a power play, in which you play a character or role. Whether characters, imagining other scenes or backgrounds or settings, one person as completely submissive… When the getting is good, the good keep it going! That’s why you control it with code words so you don’t get confused. For example, in a rape scene- you might yell ” Get the fuck off of me! No! Please no- ow, you’re hurting me!” When inside you are really thinking “this is so fucking hot- I can’t hold on much longer!”

From there, there are so many scenes that people play through- and a lot of which I will be dedicating full journal entries to in the future.

Daddy Daughter
Secretary- Boss
“Secret Service Sluts”
Tip: If you want to get a chick to role play with you and she doesn’t get it- Take 45 minutes to an hour out of your day and say you will watch an episode of Sex and The City with you. There’s a whole episode where one character is loving and going on and on about “Fucking outside the box” (Season Six- Called “Pick a Little, Talk a Little”. It’s great.

So here I have been going on and on about role play with a partner, but don’t ever rule out solo sex!!! Solo role play sex can be really fucking amazing. Who else can read your mind but you? Get into your own scene- and you know when you want out ..How else would your partner know that you want to ripped open like a garlic press and fucked by a robot? (ps. Glass Toys) And how else can that happen in your mind unless you control it? (You can control intensity with the code words though but I am stressing that solo sex is awesome and shouldn’t be though of as lesser in any way).

There is another thing to discuss when getting into different kinds of play,and that is boundaries. There are Hard and Soft Boundaries. A soft boundary is something that you haven’t tried, but you would like to try to incorporate. A hard boundary is something you can’t handle. For example. A hard boundary for many people is anything in their ass. Another common hard boundary is mentioning rape or molestation or any sort of play related to it. Some soft boundaries for many people are anal play and play rape. hehehe. Different for everyone. So have a chat with your partner sometime after you get it on and find out some of the soft boundaries at least!

If you’re in a monogamous long-term relationship, you know what I say when I refer to that slump- when you are not a new couple any more and you either live together or- actually living together is often what does it. lol. Because that “what next” is gone. You know what’s in your house, you both work hard- you have to keep that wonder up with surprises in the bedroom and position books are not going to do that. They are stupid. Straight up. Just roll around or bring out props. When you were a new couple, not living together, You know what they will be wearing when you get home, because you saw them put it on. You know when you will see each other again and you know that most likely you will have sex in your own bed in your house- probably not your friend’s car. If you are in this- and I have been there too- a few times.. wake up! Verbalize what you want and need, even if you have to sneak it in, or bring it up as a joke at first. Role play is what can bring that feeling of new exciting partners and ideas back to your vag so you can forget about that lube pump for a little while. hahaha.

I had to toss that in because I always hear people say- but she wont because blah blah. or no, he’s into blah blah. No matter how long you were together you can and should be getting what you want. If you are single- all the better because you don’t need to have some of these talks- you can yell what ever you want :D
hahah

Toy Recommendations!
Yes- new fabrics and textures, erotic movies, cute (stripper) costumes and shoes but mostly, your IMAGINATION (have you heard the song Pure Imagination from Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory? Go back and re-think it.
NO- kama sutra and position books

I realize that this is a shorter entry than most will be- but I had to make sure that the foundation is already built so that when I start talking about big big fetishes and scenes and using these words- that you all know what I am talking about.

A little history reference about naughty games and bets:
Animal Satire Papyrus
This is from a Papyrus Satire, which shows animals acting like people. This scene of a lion and gazelle playing chess is so soo famous- they make it into posters and postcards… I have the full pic here but it is too big to scan.Pic here from (http://www.touregypt.net/featurestories/humor.htm). Anyway, what they DONT show is that the bet was winner fucks loser, so, a few centimetres to the right, you will see the lion on its hind haunches front paws resting on a table, with the gazelle on it’s back on the table, legs in the air, taking it like a pro. And the lion’s face.. is PRICELESS. Because it is taboo, the lion’s penis is partially scratched out and all around it too- from sometime later in history. I love this scene so hard.
So yeah- point is- Strip poker in the kitchen played like an old back room poker game scene can be really fun!

Alright, even though many people don’t bother answering the question of the week, I am sure you have caught on that it hints at the next weeks’ topic.
So my Q of the week for you is:
” Just how much attention to do pay to that area “below the belt” in your playtime?”
Ha. I have to be vague.

Have a great week!
<3
LittleRed



Valentines Day, eh? May as well update today instead of Friday to give you kids some time to run out and find stuff to hide under the mattress, between the sheets, under the pillow and between the meat curtains.. I mean.. on the windowsill…

I must admit that this entry is going to be packed with information, I’ve tried to place ideas in bold for easy scrolling when you need to take a break from reading- I hope it works-I may keep it up. It was also very difficult for me to differentiate between light and heavy play so bear with me but I think where I ended up drawing the line works rather well for this one.. don’t think I wont still choke you dizzy when the time comes though.. hehe.

Where to start? From the top down? Bottom to Top? No, I’ll prolong your reading experience and save the best for last hehe. You will notice that within Basic Bondage I avoided Blindfolds. Personally I love to use them, hate to wear them. Maybe it’s because I’m visually challenged ha ha and I don’t need a reminder. I do often go semi blind into play though. Aaaanyway. I LOVE using hoods. I love people who can wear them well- but there I go getting ahead of myself again.

Blindfolds - rather, the use of them must occur in a situation based on trust- in a light scene even. You must build up to something lest you shock your body or shock the person (extreme heat, cold, pain etc)- and in a first experience- you want to avoid this. It is a fantastic way to play- never knowing what might come next exactly, especially when some of those things are what I am about to mention. You don’t need to go out and buy a blindfold- you can still use that tie and that scarf that were mentioned in Basic Bondage. What else can you do with that scarf??

A Cleave Gag. Thats where the mouth is still open, and the scarf basically is tied through that open mouth and behind the head. The person can bite down on it as well. Pull them by the hair to get them into it. A great website for scarf use that I stumbled across looking for scarf pics is KnottySilkScarf.com Scarf Fun! check out this helpful how-to page!

There is blocking the sense of sight, but if your partner(s) are not fans of blocked vision, why not play up that sense along with the sense of touch by adding textures to the room? Its been said too many times- that you have to make your bed somewhere you want to be. For example, today I spilled noodles all over my fucking clean white sheets. And I was out of paper towel. So I cleaned it up with toilet paper.. and little flecks of it stuck to this white goo that was left. I don’t want to spend sexy time on that goo- I want to make my own! Not get my back scratched by dried food crust. So wash your sheets. Lol. That being said- try red :D Okay so red is not traditionally a good colour for a bedroom, but earthy reds oranges and browns are pretty sensual. Then again a lot of people find black very sensual, and satin sheets. You could buy some satin pillowcases and slip them on your pillows when you know you might have company. Pillows in general are handy to have, soft and hard (firm especially for use as sex furniture and props, more on that in a later entry). A fuzzy throw can be frigging wicked. toss it on the bed- who cares what your sheets look like underneath? Fuck on the warm fuzzy blanket- pretend its a rug, light a candle and get that filthy cottage feel. Course- leaving all the windows open in winter helps get that cottage feel throughout the bedroom pretty quickly. On a side note, but related, I once knew a bed that had a name and it’s own internet profile. It got a lot of love :D

Speaking of candle light- play with light (I DID NOT just tell you to play with fire), lamps are nice, candles.. or lights all on, or lights all off. Go outside your comfort zone and try something else. Besides all the things I will recommend you can always fiddle with lights for a second before you get your diddle fiddled.

Speaking of one’s diddle… clean up for fucks sake before you expect anyone to put their mouth there!! But seriously, the nose knows. Essential oils or aromatherapy candles can be awesome. Especially for a long haul. Something with orange and cinnamon will keep you alert but also give the room a warm feel. Ylang Ylang is a very sensual oil and is in a lot of erotic blends. You can either put the oils in water on the top of a burner with a tealight.. Sprinkle a few drops on the pillow- on a cotton ball tucked between the bed and the wall.. something like that. Just not on your skin unless the package specifically says so and you’ve done some reading. Although it’s relaxing, I’d say avoid lavender and chamomile on their own unless you want to fall asleep.

The nose is related to the mouth. You eat what you smell (tongue plus sense of smell)… So why not actually eat what you smell and relax either during a break or before or whenever with chocolate cake or cupcakes and feed it to each other.. cool whip.. is awesome. For obvious reasons. Avoid sugar around the vag though unless you don’t mind taking a break from “activity” for a while. Or if you want to be forced into knocking on the back door. :) Truffles, warm chocolate warmed up in the microwave and drizzled on to the body… You get the idea.

As for ears… lick them. nibble on them. I am not sure if earplugs would help some people or be interesting.. but personally I like to be able to listen to the breathing of my partner because often, that over verbalization is your best clue to whether they are digging what you are doing to them. As for breathing and breathplay- that is for another entry. And besides giving the ears some love- music! Or background noise, often makes people more comfortable- such as the old “wanna come over and watch a movie?” which quickly turns to the ignored movie in the background :) MOVIE RECOMMENDATION!!! Kama Sutra: A Tale of Love Is Amazing! Sensual, Sexual, with a good storyline.. I reaaaaaally think everyone should see it. It can be very hard to come by though… but talks a lot about the importance of limbs and admiration of the body.

As for limbs, hands and feet, you can mix it up by wearing gloves : latex (allergy alert!), silky, cotton, scratchy workman gloves, rubber whatever. Mesh would be cute too- to give a new sense of texture. And with those hands don’t be shy to get in there and pin your partner down, and tickle them!! Back to gloves, get your partner to toss on some fancy gloves- but then- oh no! you wouldn’t want to get them stained!! So- a hands-free night is in order. Stockingscertainly mix it up, and if you feel adventurous/ have an amazing closet- toss on that netted body stocking!!! Need an example? Check out this hot little number on amazon.com with faux corset detail!Corset Stocking or a bit more obvious as to what I mean, this fence-net body stocking on amazon.com Net Body Stocking

Hand-y Work: Nails. Not just for nose-picking! Haven’t tried it? What are you crazy? Hot-Cold its Amazing! And if you like nails- you should try natural liniment. Only on certain parts of the body mind you, not mucous membranes or genitals… My favorite being made by Ashbury’s Aromatherapy in Vancouver, BC, Canada. (and damn if you’ve been tied up in pretzel positions- put it where you know you might feel it the next day- and you wont!
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